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| Preface
Lifestyle Dominance and Submission. D/s, 24 hours a day, seven days
a week. By all counts, a pretty lofty ambition! Ask 50 people what it
means, and you're sure to get 60 different definitions! In this article, I
will give you one of those definitions - mine. I'm certain my definition
will differ from yours. I'm certain my lifestyle is not suited for all
readers. I'm only sure of one thing: I could not stand to live my life any
other way...it works for me...it may work for you.
First, before I
approach the subject, a short introduction. I've been living the D/s
lifestyle for over 15 of my 3x years. When I had my first D/s (more S/M)
experience, I was 12 years old. It wasn't sexual, but it was powerful. I
first started seriously experimenting with D/s sexually in college when I
dated a couple of guys who shared my interests. Today I'm happily married
to my slave of 11 years and also keep four regular subs. One of my subs,
who has been with me for 8 years, lives in my home with me and my hubby.
The newest sub has been with me for a bit over 3 years.
I mention
these details for two reasons. First, so you realize that D/s
relationships are just that to me, Relationships. They are not casual
acquaintances. During my life, they originated prior to, if not coincident
with, the D/s aspects / activities. Secondly, I want to stress that,
because of my approach to D/s and what I term 'true submission', I can
maintain several concurrent D/s-oriented relationships without
complication. While polyamory is not for everyone, the same principles are
successfully applied in monogamous relationships.
The point of
this article is to share my views on D/s. In particular, I focus on the
male's approach to D/s through 'True Submission'. I hope that both men and
women will read this. It's my hope that men will see submission from a new
perspective and strive to please their dommes through the techniques
described here. I also hope that women will see what is, to me, a far more
desirable alternative to their lifestyle relationships. It's your choice
ladies. You can set the terms of his submission, why not make it most
beneficial for you? 24/7 may not be for everyone...but this approach to
lifestyle makes it far more manageable.
- Rika
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